Sometimes being a strong black woman is not the best thing to be

I agree that nowadays black women have to be strong in order to make it in this world and in business. But there are times when I do feel that black women need to kinda let go of the reigns of life and be more sensitive and kind. I have met some women who feel like they have to be strong 24/7. I met one woman who said that she had to be that way because life had treated her so badly. Another told me that she was that wayt because of past relationships. Whatever the reason may be, it is okay to be strong but if you want poeple to care about you and most of all,love you,you have to let those walls down. I won't say that you won't be hurt,but if you keep those walls up,not only are you keeoing people out,but you are keeping God out as well. ONE.